Unfurling The Tangles #14

Happiest 16th monthsary to us! It’s always such a high to be aware that you are in a relationship with your favorite hooman being in the whole planet.  And it’s intoxicating to realize that you are falling more and in love with this person every single day when you thought that you can’t already love him/her more. But things would just happen and you just realize one morning,  that you still have more to give and you have no regrets. It’s not about worshiping the person like a devotee to his/her god/goddess. You still acknowledge and accept the flaws and…

Unfurling The Tangles #13

A Million Reasons Nothing is more difficult than this feeling, This feeling of helpless, This feeling of vulnerability, This feeling of inexplicable emotions, And yet, we start wars to hold on to the feeling, We burn ships if anything threatens the feeling, We are ready to risk our lives for the feeling, At the end of the day   This feeling of love drives us to change, to create, to build, to live and it also drives us to be greedy, to destroy, to kill. A million reasons, a single emotion. Love for another human being, Love for the country,…

Unfurling The Tangles #11

Being that our relationship is relatively young and that there are still some things that we are working on, it has become a tradition for us to meet each other whenever there are long holidays or if our work deliverables are not so demanding. December was challenging for the both us because we were supposed to meet in Davao Oriental to attend as godparents for a dear friend. Unfortunately, Typhoon Odette also decided to make its landfall in the Visayas Island and Cebu City was heavily affected. Mr. Handsome didn’t make it to our meeting place.  Communications was also lost…

Unfurling The Tangles #10

Whoa! Finally, our first year anniversary. Depending from your perspective, it could either be long or short but does it really matter? I don’t think that it’s about the number of years that you’re together but more about the quality of your relationship. On how you resolved the challenges of your relationship, on how you see each other at the end of the day, on how you think that the relationship is more valuable than your individual differences, on how you choose to forgive and love each other after every fight. Another learning worth sharing is that you don’t have…